Sooooo, I'm finally updating this profile again, in what?- like months? I don't know how long it has been since I honestly logged in and tuned my brain in, to be honest.
I've taken a large step away from being glued to my computer like I used to be, mostly in part to situations in my own personal life. I don't want to go into grave detail, not because it's that gruesome, but because I don't feel like dumping my issues on people anymore.
So, let me try to get most of the heavy topic out of the way, and update a bit on where I am in my life now. Honestly, not to far from where I was. I have been sorting out family shit still (lol that never ends, does it?) but I believe the major difference now is that I have made a point to stand my ground and take myself out of toxic situations. The universe is always testing us, and I suppose I finally decided to pick up the pencil and begin my exam. Losing my mother- the family structure I relied on- gave me a slap in the face and as much as I fought it when I was younger, I think it was a lot harder on me than I would have ever admitted. The brilliance of being a rebellious teenager, I suppose.
I wanted so bad to block out the effect it had on me, so much so that I didn't realize what I was doing to others. I needed them around me, but I didn't want to be hurt again, so I kept them at arms length. I was wrong, of course. Keeping them away from me was just like walking away myself. I accept that now. The people I've lost left not because they hated me but because living with my luke warm excuse for friendship wasn't enough to keep the light alive.
I know realizing all that now doesn't help anyone but myself in the future, and I know that I still have trust issues to the point I fade away if I feel like someone is becoming invested in me. It isn't something I have become mature enough or seasoned enough to learn how to surpass. I'm still afraid of people.
I finally said it.
Okay, that takes care of where mentally I have been, but now for the physicality of my life. Busy, very busy. I've been busy with building my portfolio, managing the social stuffs- I can't get out of needing to be face to face with people, can I? lol. This summer my brother and I are looking into getting a job together at a craft store-- exciting, yes?
It will give us both an opportunity to be in an atmosphere that we both love; crafting! Making things has been something we've both loved since we were little, and I'd like to get a chance to really immerse in a comfortable place of art while I am currently studying it.
Speaking of art: Cosplay! Sakura-con!
It is just around the corner, so the past few months have been a crunch of getting everything sewn, glued, sanded, painted, and nailed into place. I am so excited, this is the first time that I have literally made everything by myself! All sewing, painting, and crafting was done by me. Same for my brother on his costumes! Kudos to us for figuring out how to sew finally, even if it's late to the party haha. 7 years into cosplay and finally I amend to no more liquid-stitch (unless it's needed, that is) It's been a real, grueling, day-to-night project for this crunch time. Hopefully, we'll be all wrapped up in a week or so. Con is so close!!
Originally, I had planed to make Yuri Lowell cosplay from the game Tales of Vesparia, but my broke ass couldn't afford to start until I had saved up some money, and I ran out of adequate time to make everything. My brother was going to be Flynn Scifo, but of course ran into a similar snag. Hopefully, next year we can debut those costumes! (with a full time job we should be able to get it together much faster)
This year's line up will be:
Full Course For Candy Addict, Kamui Gakupo (my bro will be Kaito)
Ao no Exorcist, Okumura Rin (my bro as Yukio, woot!)
Alrighty then, I believe I have blabbered enough for one post and then some. In short, I'm a mess like always, I figured out how much of an ass I've been- and how to sew to boot. Plans for the future? Post some actual art on here because I have actually gotten better with a little practice-- imagine that lol.
I love you all (who ever might still be around to read this) Know that I never meant to leave anyone behind, I just needed some more time to grow up (and probably still do) and figure my shit out so to speak. Mwah! Love you, lovelies.
~Aroun